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GOD Hates Divorce

  • God Hates Divorce

    “I’m getting a divorce, but I don’t plan to marry again” These words are being heard with increasing

    frequency. Usually the spokesman is thinking that God allows the right to divorce, but would disapprove

    remarriage.

    The truth is, however; Divorce itself is sinful unless it is for the cause of fornication.

    a.. Consider Matthew 19:3-6. The question originally asked Jesus by the Pharisees was not concerning

    remarriage, but concerning divorce: Is it lawful for a man to put away his wife for every cause?” Jesus’

    reply to that question: ‘What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder.” It was only after

    further questioning that Jesus discussed the problem of remarriage and adultery.

    b.. Consider Malachi 2:16. “For the Lord, the God of Israel, saith that he hateth putting away.” Even

    under the old covenant God did not approve of indiscriminate divorce. It is likely that the “tears” of verse

    12 which “covered the altar” and caused the Lord to refuse their offering, were the tears of those who had

    been wrongfully put away.

    c.. Consider Matthew 5:32. “Whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication,

    causeth her to commit adultery.” Observe the words, “causeth her” or maketh her” (ASV). This writer

    understands this verse to say that if one divorces his wife he places her in a position of temptation to

    commit adultery, and shares the guilt when she does commit adultery. On the other hand, if he puts her

    away for the cause of fornication, he has put her away legitimately, and shares no guilt in whatever adultery

    she may subsequently commit.

    d.. Consider 1 Corinthians 7:16: “And unto the married I command, yet not I, but the Lord, Let not the

    wife depart from her husband.” Observe the word “command” or “charge” (ASV). The following verse

    (verse 11) does not negate or nullify this command, but simply recognizes that one might disobey the

    Lord’s command (in which case he sins - 1 John 3:4), and states his options if he has disobeyed. Not only

    does the Lord command husband and wife to live together, but he commands them to meet one another’s

    physical needs (1 Corinthians 7:3-5) and to love one another (Ephesians 5:25; Titus 2:4-5)

    If one companion in a marriage fails along these lines, the other must still be obedient to God, seeking to

    be what He would have him or her to be in the marriage relationship. Never should the thought of divorce

    or separation ever enter the mind unless fornication occurs. We are not suggesting that divorce itself is

    “adultery,” but we are saying that divorce for any cause other than fornication is sin. Christians must not

    be influenced by the loose standards that prevail in the world in which they live. - Bill Hall